One of the questions couples ask me most often when planning a Lake Como elopement is simple: “How should our day actually flow?” An elopement is small, but it still needs a plan. The lake has its own rhythm — the light, the ferries, the crowds in Bellagio and Varenna, the shade that falls early on one shore and late on the other. A good timeline works with all of that, so you can spend your day feeling present instead of looking at your watch.
Here is how I plan elopement days on Lake Como, with two sample timelines you can adapt.


First, understand the light on Lake Como
Lake Como is surrounded by mountains, which means the sun disappears behind them before the actual sunset time. This changes everything about planning.
- The western shore (Tremezzina, Lenno, Cernobbio) faces east. It gets beautiful morning light but loses the direct sun earlier in the evening.
- The eastern shore (Varenna and the villages around it) faces west and keeps the warm evening light longer.
- Bellagio, at the tip of the peninsula, has views in several directions, which makes it flexible at almost any time of day.
In summer the sun sets around 9 pm, in late September closer to 7:30 pm, but the most beautiful soft light on the water often comes 1-2 hours before that. When I build a timeline, I start with the light and plan the rest of the day around it.

Morning or evening ceremony?
Both work beautifully, they just give you a different day.
A morning elopement means quiet villages, calm water and fewer people in the frame. It’s perfect if you want portraits in Bellagio or Varenna without crowds, and then a long, relaxed lunch.
An afternoon or evening elopement gives you warm golden light, a sunset boat ride and a dinner that runs into the night. It’s the more romantic, cinematic option, and the one most of my couples choose.
Sample timeline 1: Golden hour elopement (summer)
This is my favourite structure for June to August.
- 14:00 — Getting ready. Hair and makeup at your villa or hotel. I arrive around 15:00 to photograph details: dress, shoes, rings, vows, invitation or anything handmade and meaningful.
- 16:00 — Getting dressed. The final moments of getting ready, buttons, veil, a letter from your partner.
- 16:30 — First look. A private moment just for the two of you, usually in the villa garden or on a quiet terrace.
- 17:00 — Couple portraits, part one. Gardens, staircases, interiors while the light is still high and soft in the shade.
- 18:00 — Ceremony. A symbolic ceremony on a terrace or in a garden overlooking the lake. With an officiant, music and vows, it usually lasts 20-30 minutes.
- 18:30 — Toast and celebration. Champagne, hugs, family or guests if you have them, a few group photos.
- 19:15 — Private boat ride. A classic wooden boat at golden hour is the signature Lake Como moment. 45-60 minutes is ideal.
- 20:15 — Sunset portraits. Back on land, a short walk through a village or along the water as the light turns pink.
- 20:45 — Dinner. A private dinner on the terrace or at a lakeside restaurant. I usually stay for the first course and toasts.



Sample timeline 2: Morning elopement with lunch
Ideal for spring and autumn, or for couples who want quiet villages and an easy pace.
- 07:00 — Getting ready. Early start, calm atmosphere, coffee on the balcony.
- 08:30 — First look and portraits. Empty lanes and lakefront promenades — this is the time to photograph Bellagio or Varenna almost without tourists.
- 09:30 — Boat transfer. A short boat ride to your ceremony location, with portraits on the water.
- 10:30 — Ceremony. A villa garden or a terrace in soft morning light.
- 11:00 — Toast, celebration and portraits.
- 12:30 — Long lunch. A private lunch by the lake that can easily last the whole afternoon.
- Optional: 17:30 — Second session. Change your outfit and come back for a short golden hour session. Many couples love this, as it gives two completely different looks in one day.
How long should photography coverage be?
For most elopements on Lake Como I recommend 4-6 hours. That covers getting ready, the ceremony, a boat ride and portraits without rushing. If you have a dinner with family and friends, or want a second session at sunset, 8 hours or a full day gives you room to breathe. Travel between locations always takes longer than it looks on the map, so I always build in buffer time.
The boat ride: tips from experience
- Book a private boat, not a public ferry. A private boat lets us stop where the light is best and gives you real privacy.
- Time it with the light. The hour before sunset is the most beautiful. Midday on the water is bright and harsh.
- Bring a wrap. Even in summer it can be cool on the water in the evening. A shawl or jacket also looks lovely in photos.
- Think about your hair and veil. It’s windy on the lake. A long veil looks incredible in motion, but plan a few photos with it and then take it off.

Things couples often forget to plan
- Ceremony slots. Many villas have fixed time slots for ceremonies. Check them before you plan anything else.
- Weekend crowds. Bellagio and Varenna can be very busy on summer weekends. Weekday elopements are calmer and often easier to book.
- Shoes for stone steps. Lake Como villages are full of steep stairs and cobblestones. Bring a second pair for walking.
- Weather backup. Summer storms do happen. Ask your venue about an indoor or covered option.
- Legal paperwork. If you want a legal ceremony in Italy, it requires documents and planning in advance. Many couples choose a symbolic ceremony on Lake Como and do the legal part at home. I explain the options in my guide on how to legally get married in Italy.

FAQ
How long does a Lake Como elopement take?
Most elopements take 4-6 hours from getting ready to sunset portraits. With a dinner or a second session, plan for a full day.
What is the best time of day for an elopement on Lake Como?
The hour or two before sunset gives the softest, warmest light. Early morning is the best option if you want quiet villages and very few people around.
Is a boat ride worth it for an elopement?
Absolutely. It’s the most iconic Lake Como experience and gives you some of the most beautiful photographs of the day. 45-60 minutes at golden hour is perfect.
Which shore of Lake Como has the best evening light?
The eastern shore around Varenna keeps the evening sun longer. The western shore loses direct light earlier because of the mountains, but has beautiful morning light.
Planning a Lake Como elopement for 2027? I help my couples build the timeline around light, locations and the way they want to feel on their day. Write to me through the contact page — I’d love to hear your plans.

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